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Many couples have problems in their sex lives. Some of the common problems are lack of desire or sexual appetite. Lack of variations can lead to boredom. Sex becomes a routine and not something that can improve the relationship anymore. Some experts suggest that erotic reading can improve a couple’s sex life.
Erotica can spice your sex life because the stories can give you new ideas about the things you can try. They can give you ideas about role play. By imagining you and your partner in different situation, you can add variations to your sex lives.
Through these stories can also find out about things that arouse you and your partners. Maybe you have never thought about it before, but you feel desire when you read some of the scenarios. Popular situations that people find sexy are being captured by pirates or policemen. Some women love to imagine themselves as ladies in medieval or Regency era.
Role playing is an excellent way to spice up your sex life. Many couples love to role play in their bedrooms. To make your role play more intense, you can wear costumes that are similar to the characters in the book. You can dress up as pirates, cops, aliens, medieval ladies, or anything you like.
You do need to keep in mind that you need to be careful when you enacting your favorite scenarios. If you use handcuffs, make sure you have the key at hand. Some more intense scenarios like BDSM scenes might need guides from the more experienced practitioners to avoid injuries.
Erotic readings, erotic costumes, and sex toys are widely available in online adult shops or local adult shops. Many erotica stories are available through major bookstores. Some people might prefer to purchase eBooks to avoid their books being found by their children.
Most adults have been known to experience an erotic mood, which can happen when they are alone or with a special someone. Many entertainment and self-help genres have been introduced to help supplement these feelings or to help people express themselves.
Erotic is from the Greek word “eros” which means desire. It is philosophical thoughts focusing on the aesthetic of desire, sensuality and love. Eros was also the name of the Greek god of love.
The Greeks understood love as a type of madness. They called it “madness from the gods”, and was attributed to being hit by an arrow by Cupid or another mythological deity. The arrows could overwhelm a person with desire and love sickness. It is actually somewhat of an oxymoron depicting pleasure and pain.
Sensuality is concerned with the pleasures of your senses, but eroticism is different. It is concerned with finding ways to heighten those pleasures.
Erotica is a genre of art, which includes photography, film, sculpture, painting, and literature. It deals with erotically stimulating descriptions. Many people believe that eroticism is difficult to define since the perception of what it is from person to person can fluctuate. For example, a nude painting created for a private collection may be considered erotic by some, but then obscene by others. It is all a matter of interpretation.
Whether it is through literature, art, dance, music, food, or from being hit by Cupid’s arrow, people are bound to experience an erotic mood. The best way to go along with these situations and feelings is to embrace the elements that are available. There is literature available to heighten the mood, in bookstores and online. There are films and art galleries to feature it, or you can just enjoy something as simple as strawberries with chocolate. Instead of feeling self-conscious or embarrassed, find a way to embrace your feelings.